This is one of the most delicate subject to handle. Just because of the insufficient knowledge in sex education, we happen to witness a lot of unwanted child birth. We are totally confused whether to teach the children about the sex or not. There are many different views about this. This is delicate, because different countries have different policies on this subject. In most of the countries, they feel the excess growth of childbirth. Unless we have proper education in sex education, it would not be possible for us to control the childbirth. At the same time, we have to think whether it would be a correct decision to enforce them with the sex education.

But as for as I am concerned, they must be very clear and proper education while they are at high school itself, so that they would have the awareness before entering into the married life. The basic reason is, when they are aware of the pregnancy, surely they would take care of it. Of course, we are talking of a husband and wife only. They need at least one and half years to two years of theoretical experience before the practical. There are only a few people who know exactly about the sex. Even after ten years of wedded life, they do not know anything about sex.

In general, the persons who are involved in marriage, that is, the boy and the girl should visit the doctor to have his advice in the subject. Since each and every country have their own culture, only in a few countries it would be possible for them to consult the doctor together. In that case, they can clear all the doubts they have. Here, since I am not teaching the subject, sex, I suggest that it would be the best way to proceed the married life with happiness. In most of the cases, the parents hesitate to discuss this matter with their son or daughter. There should be no uneasiness to discuss about this. Our aim should be that they should have no problems in their entire life.

In many movies, just for the sake of story, they show many unwanted and incorrect views to massacre the people, who do not have even the basic idea of sex education. This develops some bad thoughts in their mind and because of this; they even do not have the pleasure. They should realize their moral responsibility to provide the correct information or otherwise they should try to avoid these scenes.

Though this is only an article about sex and not a lesson book, in accordance with the title of the article, I have to give some very important details about the unwanted pregnancy.

The period of menstrual: In general, there would be a discharge of a woman once in twenty seven to twenty nine days. There would be bleeding for three to four days. This is the normal period. During this period, the day discharge of blood would be less and on the second day it would be more. Then the discharge of the blood would reduce gradually and there would be no bleeding after that till the next turn of menses. So, the gap between periods would be approximately twenty seven days.

You have to divide them into three parts as the first one third, the second one third and the third one third. Say nine and nine and nine days. Out of these three parts, the first nine days are safer period. The second nine days are cautious period and the third nine days are again safer period. During the first nine days and the final nine days, there is no possibility at all of consuming. You can be free from using any artificial methods. There is no need to use them. You can have physical connection as many times as you wish. Coming to the middle nine days, you have t be cautious.

The period of ovulation takes place in between these nine days, most probably at the middle days. The life time of the ovule would be just about forty eight hours. Then it is discharged along with urine. But it is highly difficult to find that particular period. But you can find the difference to some extent. During this period, the temperature of the body would be more than the normal temperature. You can find the difference in the approach of the girl also. The desire would be more and the involvement would be abnormal during these two days. This is nature’s wonder.

So, in all, the chance of the pregnancy is only for that dangerous forty eight hours. If you do not have any sexual connection during these days, there is absolutely no chance of the pregnancy. When you are aware these facts, there would be no fear of unwanted pregnancy. Though we have thousands of calculations, the nature is beyond science. Anything may happen any time. God has given us everything for us and they are always there only for our pleasure. Sex is a very sacred one as well as a confidential one. This is just the introduction. Since this is a very deep but essential subject, more articles are needed to learn further.

Do sarcasm, put-downs, and pouting keep you from holding Family Meetings? Do you want your kids to speak up, to listen, and to be respectful? Do you want them to become people of character?

In his book, Character Is Destiny, Senator John McCain said, “It is your character alone, that will make your life happy or unhappy…and you choose it.” Parents, if you want your children to be happy, help them to choose character. The Family Meeting is an excellent tool to help them make that choice.

Perhaps, like other parents, you fear the battles that could occur during family meetings. Maybe you don’t know how to teach your kids the skills they need. If so, this special Communication Formula is for you. It’s as easy as one, two, three.

Communication Formula:

1.When you…(Be specific about a behavior.)

2.I feel…(Name a feeling like mad, upset, and angry.)

3.I want you to…(Give a specific positive behavior.)

Use this communication formula with your kids and have them practice it with each other. Here are three examples.

1st Example(by an older sister)

1.Victor, when you’re sarcastic with me,

2.I feel mad.

3.I want you to talk to me in a nicer voice.

2nd Example (by a parent)

1.Gretta, when you pout if I don’t buy you a toy,

2.I feel upset with you.

3.I want you to take a “No” nicely and say, “OK Mom.”

3rd Example (by a younger brother)

1.Bubba, when you hit me and call me names,

2.I feel angry.

3.I want you to talk nicely and play fair with me.

At a time outside the Family Meeting:

Practice! Practice! Practice!

When you hold Family Meetings the formula will be ready to use. You won’t have to worry about your kids fighting with each other because they’ll have this Communication Formula to use. They’ll be expressing themselves effectively and building character too.

Jean Tracy, MSS, Edmonds, WA, USA

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It doesn’t seem possible at the outset of pregnancy, but your skin really will stretch enough to accommodate your baby. Collagen and elastin in the skin guarantee it. It seems that collagen has the tensile strength of steel - and by the end of the pregnancy, you’ll understand why this is important.

Elastin, just like the name implies, comprises the rubber-like, elastic fibers in the skin. From a scientific perspective, each elastin molecule will uncoil into a more extended conformation when the fiber is stretched and will recoil spontaneously as soon as the stretching force is relaxed. Simply put, you will tend to bounce back when your baby is born.

Stretch marks are a universal fear of almost every newly pregnant woman. Statistics are against you ― some say as many as 90 percent of women get them on their abdomen, breasts, and/or thighs ― but here’s why you shouldn’t be too concerned:

The tendency toward stretch marks is inherited, and you can’t change your genetics.

If you do your best to gain weight gradually; there’s not much more you can do.

Moisturizers may make your skin feel better, but don’t waste too much money on special stretch-mark creams. No topical treatment has been proven to prevent stretch marks.

Even if you get stretch marks, they do fade somewhat over time.
Laser treatments can help remove stretch marks in severe cases. Consult your dermatologist four to six months after the pregnancy.

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Spring is upon us, which means that just around the corner the school season will be winding up. For many students it means a time for fun and laughter. But for many high school juniors and seniors, their minds are focus on prom night.

Prom night is a major highlight of many students high school career. On this night, everything is planned to be perfect and run smoothly. This can also be a stressful time for the teachers and parents who attend prom. Staying on top of things and making sure that nothing gets “out of hand” can be somewhat overwhelming. Especially when it come to the prom after parties.

Many schools will arrange for games and activities to be held on campus to prevent the students from getting into trouble. Sadly, many students will never attend these functions, due to childish games or lack off interest. The key to remember is to try and find something that will keep the students attention and provide great entertainment. A question to ask yourself is, “Will the students be able to enjoy this time and time again?” Having games and activities that are fun, but only last for a short period of time will only lead the student to boredom. It is important to keep the students active and entertained.

When I was a freshman in college, my university held a block party for all arriving freshman. The university had blocked off two major intersections and parking lots so we could as walk about and interact. To keep up occupied and a part of the festivities, the university had rented an inflatable moonwalk, and an inflatable obstacle course. Students were lining up to try out these games and would still get back in line after they were done.

Inflated games have been hits for all types of school or even church events. They can provide safe and clean fun for students or adults. Most rental companies that offer inflatable games can usually be found on the Internet or in the yellow pages. But before you to decide on a company to rent from, hear are three things to think off.

1. What is the condition of the equipment?

2. Where is the company you are renting from located and is there a traveling fee?

3. Is there enough space to accommodate these inflated games at location of the party?

4. Ask the company for an approximate number of guests a game can allow per hour.

5. Does the company provide skilled equipment supervisors?

The idea behind these games is to bring laughter and enjoyment to everyone around. Keeping these five simple questions in mind, you will be able to decide if the company you are going to rent from is truly going to provide you with the best in inflatable entertainment possible.

Author is skilled in the field of web design with a degree in Media Graphics.

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Did You Know:

Men are officially the best at changing baby! Research shows that the average time taken by a woman to change baby is 2 minutes and 5 seconds, whereas the average man takes 1 minute and 36 seconds! Expert in male and female behaviour Corinne Sweet says ‘Changing baby is essentially a mechanical process, men approach it like a pit stop; they want it over as quickly as possible’. So come on guys, you’re the experts!!

Eating fish during pregnancy can boost your baby’s brain development and give him better communication and language skills. A study of 7000 mothers found that those who ate fish at least once per week had babies who scored higher in verbal skills at 15 months than those whose mothers ate no fish.

The father’s sperm will decide the sex of your baby. The mother’s eggs contain only a female or X chromosome, but a man’s contains either an X (which makes a girl) or Y chromosome (which makes a boy). Whichever one reaches the egg first and fertilises it will determine the sex.

Air fresheners may cause diarrhoea and earache in babies say scientists. They found that infants in homes where air fresheners and aerosols were used every day were 32% more likely to suffer from stomach and ear complaints.

One in five toddlers can open medicine and chemical bottles with child-resistant tops experts are warning. Every year thousands of toddlers are taken to hospital having swallowed substances ranging from perfume, painkillers and household cleaning products. The Child Accident Prevention Trust advises parents to store all medicines high up and well out of reach and sight; never assume that a child cannot open a product with a child-resistant lid; and never leave pills or drugs in a handbag - a favorite place for a toddler to search.

Overweight children are up to 5 times more likely to have a heart attack or stroke before the age of 65. So if you’re overfeeding your ‘little’ one, you could be killing him with kindness.

Will your baby be left or right-handed? It’s decided as early as 10 weeks gestation say researchers who found that babies in the womb favor one hand over the other, the same one they’ll prefer to use in life.

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Author: Tony Luck who runs a site where you can get help on baby care.
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